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“Personal Growth: Who I’m Becoming”

December 18, 2025 - By Carmen Carde

Personal growth doesn’t always arrive with fireworks or clear instructions. Sometimes it shows up quietly; in the choices we make, the boundaries we set, and the courage it takes to release what no longer fits. This season of my life isn’t about becoming someone new for the world. It’s about becoming more true to myself.

Letting Go of Who I Thought I Had to Be

For a long time, I measured progress by external milestones—job titles, locations, stability, productivity. While those things still matter, they no longer define me. Growth, for me, has meant unlearning the idea that my worth is tied to how much I can carry or how much I can endure.

I’m learning that it’s okay to pivot. It’s okay to outgrow old versions of myself. And it’s okay to choose peace over pressure.

A journal, pen, and coffee resting on a wooden table in soft natural light, symbolizing reflection, simplicity, and personal growth. — Sometimes growth begins by creating space to breathe and reflect.

Embracing Change Without Having All the Answers

This season is full of transition—geographically, professionally, spiritually. Instead of forcing certainty, I’m learning to trust the process. I don’t need to have everything figured out to be on the right path.

Personal growth has taught me that clarity often comes after action, not before it. Showing up, staying curious, and allowing room for evolution has been far more powerful than waiting for perfect timing.

Redefining Strength and Success

Strength used to mean pushing through no matter what. Now, it looks like listening to my body, honoring my mental health, and choosing alignment over hustle. Success isn’t just financial or professional anymore—it’s holistic.

Success is:

Feeling grounded in my decisions
Building a life that supports my well-being
Creating work that reflects my values
Allowing rest without guilt

This redefinition has been one of the most freeing aspects of my personal growth journey.

Becoming More Intentional With My Life and Energy

One of the biggest shifts I’ve experienced is learning to protect my energy. I’m more mindful about what I say yes to, who I give access to, and how I spend my time. This isn’t about isolation—it’s about intention.

I’m choosing depth over noise. Purpose over obligation. Alignment over approval.

Rooted in Faith, Guided by Growth

My faith continues to ground me, especially when the path feels unclear. I’ve learned that growth doesn’t always come with loud confirmation—sometimes it comes with quiet reassurance. Trusting God’s timing has helped me release the need to control every outcome.

I’m not rushing this season. I’m honoring it.